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Are people good because they don't say, do or think bad stuff or are people good because, even though their thoughts are corrupted, they don't act or express them? Is a n@zi a good person if they don't ever, in any way, express their hatred?

I consider myself alt but often find myself judging people. Still, would never say it to their face nor do anything to them. Still, they don't deserve bad things just because they're "cringe" or something (obviously).

so I've considered myself aroace for the longest time. i'm not out or anything but that's just what I think. i've never been in a relationship or been involved in anything romantic including sex stuff. i also don't necessarily dream of being in a relationship or having a partner hence the aroace labeling. but... I'm a big fan culture enthusiast and my obv recent obsession is hudson and connor iykyk. NOT in a parasocial way or anything and obv how they (and any celebrity/public figure) portray themselves is not exactly how they are in their private lives. But like theoretically let's say they were exactly like that irl I feel like I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with them? I'd probably like it a lot. so would that not be aro? but i feel like it's only because they're exactly the type or personality/person I like and it'd be nice to just be friends too? maybe it's cause since I'll never know them I'm attracted to them as if they're fictional characters. I've never imagined myself enjoying a relationship with anyone I've ever known irl nor have I ever been attracted to a stranger or other celebrity.
Maybe I just haven't met MY person yet? If they exist. Maybe I'm only capable of being attracted to people after getting to know them deeply.

Not that labeling anything is important just curious if i'm insane or anyone else has felt like this before.