my mom used to do the same, but mine was worse, like no food for 3 days, locked up in my room with no food or toys, now she doesn't do it put I have a pretty bad case of PTSD. she denies ever hitting me to doing anything to harm me but i think the same as you do. When she gets drunk tho (like at new years) she'll grab my hair and slap me or just ye...... 1 reply
If she won’t even let you explain that’s a problem, since it might make you unconsciously think that you explaining yourself is wrong, which isn’t good I mean my mother yells at me for every tiny mistake i do so, now Im really concious on things people ask me for anddd i feel like I’m a nuisance so I end up panicking, and unfortunately thou...... reply
I don't think you're being overdramatic. I don't have the same cultural or parental background as you, but I feel like it's strange for a parent to hit you just because you tried to explain or talk to here. I do not approve of physical discipline in minor cases. Your mother may think this will condition you to not "talk back" or not be rude, but I ...... reply
i got hit a lot when i was young because i was being a literal jerk so usually the weapons they would use are: however they would tell me to never do it again and they would tell me that they love me
but my friend told me that they had to kneel on rock salt until they know what they did wrong which is very concerning tho 2 reply
actually i deal with the same thing, sometimes my mom is really nice but sometimes she hits me and calls me names. She says it's discipline and i say thats bullshit. if someone resorts to hitting just because you "talked back" and deny that she hit you, even though it happened multiple times, it is REALLY toxic and abusive. reply
i used to have this with my mom too. she'd throw random things at me or hit me, but then we'd be fine after an hour or so. It took me a while to recognize how bad it was since once she actually left a mark. I knew i couldn't tell her to stop cause she wouldn't listen, so I told my doctor. We ended up have a serious conversation and she hasn't hit m...... reply
