dude if he masturbates to another chic that isn't normal. even tho he isn't directly cheating he might be having contact with that girl as more than just friends way or he may not be interested in you.
plus, he tries to justify it by saying that its like your period what??? honey thats bullshit
these are red flags you wanna be careful, if strange...... reply
I mean, wouldn’t call it cheating, more as disgusting behavior. I say that because, 1: he’s with you and do that to someone you know. 2: if the picture was a normal old picture then he’s doing that to someone without them knowing. Break up with him even if he’s not cheating because that’s hella gross my guy 1 reply
Okay guys, so I have a bf who I have been dating for like a month now . And this is the first time ever I've ever gone out with a 'guy'. So yesterday I thought I would suprise him since it's been a month since we started dating ( yes it's really childish but I was just planning on visiting him and just spend some time ), so his mom let's me in and then I open the door to see him masturbating to this girls pic who's from my class. So I just went back home. When I asked him about it he said it's just normal for guys to masturbate and that it's like my periods. So my question is would this be considered cheating ? Am I being too possessive? Also would him masturbating to porn be considered cheating ? It might be an obvious for other but I've only dated girls till now, so plz gimme some advice (〜￣△￣)〜
Try to imagine your whole life with the stable job. Can you do it or would you hate it? No one can do a job he hates. It will make you unhappy.
Try to look more into all kind of jobs. Maybe there is a job which resembles the job which you love to do and is more stable to give you a little more security.
Think about your qualitys. What are you good ...... reply
Why do you want to study abroad? Why are the universities in another country better?
It usually requires a ton of money so you should really think about your finances. My sister actually studies abroad at an elite college but she misses her old university greatly because she left her family, friends and is all alone instead. It is really hard if yo...... reply
In my previous university, I chose a major that is more technical than I wanted but I thought it would be okay because it also had design in it (my dream was to go to an art academy, but I had no support from family and other people around me, just an older artist friend of the family supported me and it was not enough) so I thought that it was a g...... reply
i think those two criteria don't reflect reality. The way that people are usually happy with their occupation is by being proud of their work. Seeing the results or how it helps other people makes all the hard work worthwhile.
I'm a software developer. Most of the time I'm losing my mind but once you finish something it's the greatest feeling. Do...... reply
Logically, number 2 seems like a better fit. But consider this: while it's true society's constructed in a way that may obstruct you from achieving the career you really want to achieve (financially, physically, emotionally, etc.) we can't overlook the fact that efficiency decreases when you hate your job. If you're not genuinely interested in the ...... reply
I say do what you want to do. Find something that you love and would want to work so hard for. Because even if if you do have a hard time with it, you wouldn't give up. And once you do achieve it, you'll never feel like you're working because you're doing what you love.
Good luck on finding your future career! reply
Hi,
I think that it should be a mixture of both, because both are equally important and you will be working for ... let's say ... at least 30 years, so it would be good to do something you enjoy, however if it's not stable or it can't support "at least" your basic daily needs then you will start to hate it and regret the time and effort spent on i...... 2 reply
