I wish I had a man (or anyone else, I guess I don't care too much for gender? I actually don't really know)
But if I did, I'd tell him bit by bit, like I did with my friends, testing the waters. Well he'd know it in the end, I like to talk about what I read way too much not to let it be known that I like Yaoi. But in the end he doesn't have to like...... reply
uhm i dont HAVE a guy so idk. but probably? i mean if the topic or something related comes up and i trust him enough to not go around telling others about it then yes. reply
Well, I'm bi but I've only dated guys so far.. and yeah, I think you always have to tell the truth about who you are, no matter what. The main point in a relationship for me is not having any secrets and accepting and loving your partner in all their aspects. Also, in my case, being a fujoshi wasn't the weirdest thing to confess. Try having to tell...... 1 reply
I'm ace, but I'm heteroromantic, so yeah in the hypothetical situation of me getting a boyfriend he would just have to deal with it. It's not really something I try to hide in the first place.
I mean, last week at the geek store I literally waved a BL book right in the face of two of my male classmates whilst excitedly bragging about how they had t...... reply
When we started dating, I didn't told him right away, is still something personal to share. We are already dating for a long time now, so I kinda start talking about it, at the end of the day is something of my daily life, he was pretty okay with it, he actually doesn't like it personally, but he likes listening to me talking about the stories, and...... reply
Honestly it is his loss if he doesn't accept it. If I can accept his porn activities then he can accept my love for Yaoi. However, honestly Yaoi and porn can be unhealthy for a relationship because it can fill your mind with fantasies which can make you overthink and overestimate how your partner should look or act like. reply
I actually started dating my bf, by telling that I'm a fujyoshi , a very hardcore one if I mAy say so myself! And he was very understanding , and curious about this whole thing..
He was totally fine with and said he liked watching Yuri every once in a while himself, (but ofcourse that's way different from being fujyoshi!!)
All in all, I wouldn't d...... reply
i'm mostly curious about the straight ladies on this website. would you tell your guy about your yaoi obsession? cuz like, do you want him to accept you for who you are or keep your fujoshiness to yourself? for me, i HAVE to hide it cuz i'm just not confident in telling him tbh.
