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Dating advices
So I met this guy, he's nice and mature, one year younger than me and more into me than I am into him. We had our first date, and it made me so nervous and anxious, that I almost canceled at the last minute...which wouldn't have been nice let's be real. I want to learn to know him, but just thinking about him and receiving a text from him make me too anxious for what it is... I'm not ready to date I think, do I want to date someone ? How to date someone without feeling like my stomach is torned apart ?
Any advice, anecdote or trick are welcomed ! Thank you !
I would say set boundaries first because it seems like you don't want to take things too fast and that your not looking for anything serious! For example you can say , “you seem cool but I'm not looking to rush into a relationship, I want to get to know you first and maybe we can take things slow and see from there” let him know early on so he ...... 1 reply
is this your first time seeing someone? maybe that's why you're nervous and anxious, which is totally normal. if so, try meeting and hanging out with him a few more times to gauge how you really feel about him, as long as you've already set your boundaries and he respects that, and the date is what you intended.
but if not, then i guess you guys ...... reply
i thknk you should become friend with him first so you can learn to know him and become more confortable with him. if after you still want to date then go for it reply
Honestly i too have this issue,i'm sure i'm attracted to men but if i get into a relationship,not even an hour after i start getting so nervous that i want to throw up every time i see the face even though there wasn't any issue before. reply
