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I'm 22 and I try to finger myself..
so i try to finger myself, but my fingers doesn't actually go inside, it's hurt a little, it's like a something there blocks my fingers.. then i took a small didlo i made it at home and i don't know it just hurt!! What do I do? or it's just my vagina? I used oil.. a lot actually but just cant get it inside like deep there.
Um, girl?? If your finger can't fit then don't use a dildo? This sounds like vaginismus so speak to your ob/gyn. Don't hurt yourself. Btw::: if this is not a medical problem then try to get horny and wet down there before any insertion. Maybe flick the bean a bit? 7 reply
The key is foreplay. You need to arouse yourself first. Women have natural lubricating mechanism when a succesful foreplay is engaged. Try to rub your clit, or your nips etc. Or maybe an av will do the trick? Up to you. When it starts to "feel good" you will be wanting to insert whatever you want in your v. What matters is what you want to achieve....... 2 reply
i think a lot of it is based on fear i guess. it always hurts the first time (for most people) and bc it's not someone else but yourself that's doing it, you might be too scared to push it in all the way. also there was that comment about foreplay which is also 1000% relevant bc nothing's gonna work unless u horny enough reply
"small dildo I made at home" erm if you want a dildo please buy a proper one as they are safe and obviously made for penetration... It's probably hurting you because your not using a real dildo, also don't use oil use actual lube... *facepalm* 2 reply