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for the aro/ace folk
So when did y'all realize you were ace and all???? Since this account is anonymous I'll share my general experience lol.
I am 13 and was iffy about relationships. Some days I just wanna cuddle with someone and other days I don't want anyone to talk or even look at me. The only people I've had interest in are fictional, and imagining myself with real people just seems foreign to me. I've never had a crush or any friends really. I don't talk to anyone outside of school and if I do I usually cut the conversation short. The idea of making out is gross and the only typa sex I can think about is yaoi (it doesn't fucking involve me, imma girl lol) I thought people my age were always horny or whatever so I started to think I was ace or something..... But I don't know if I'm too young to know that typa stuff lololol. Maybe I got some complex I don't realize I have, but I'd thought I'd share and ask other people about their experience to have a better understanding.
Hi! Your friendly Aro and Ace person here. This reply is super long, whoops! Sorry~ I hope that anyone questioning their sexuality, aro/ace or otherwise, will read this though, I like to think I give good advice about these kinds of things lol.
I took up the label of Ace when I was around 17 (when I learned of asexuality's existence) and added on ...... 1 reply
hey! i am an asexual since as long as i remember. In my case, i cant pinpoint a single cause, even tho i found porn and such at a young age, i never liked the idea of being penetrated or making out or anything. i do like cuddles and skinship, but that is all...and yea i experience that antisocial behaviour all the time. Tho Recently i want to exper...... 1 reply
I was in college when I figured it out, I had never been interested in sex or really the importance of it in a relationship but I had never heard of the whole asexuality spectrum (outside of science) in my head it was always well you'll find the one and get married and have kids (which is something that I still want). Then one day I was in a tumblr...... reply
I was in high school when I found the label asexual but I knew I wasn't 'normal' since like 11-12 ish. Tbh I felt the same way as you did in middle school. Didn't like anyone, didn't think about sex, wasn't feeling 'horny' like my friends. Tbh I thought they were over exaggerating when the topic came up but nope apparently sexual frustration really...... reply
