I don't actually really know what made me realise I was bi because at that point I hadn't had a female crush before (i'm a girl), but I think I just realised that a straight girl wasn't supposed to be turned on by another girl reply
I get really defensive about my heterosexuality when I was younger and was afraid to read yuri/shoujo ai back then because mostly I knew I wasn't that straight but I was deeply in denial. I used to have crushes on both girls and boys, the difference is I tell my friends about my guy crush but keep the secret about the girl I have a crush on. You d...... reply
I'm a lesbian, although I'm still confused if I might be bi.
I've liked girls since I was a kid lol but I didn't think much about it until I started using the internet. Having grown up in a society where liking someone of the same gender was frowned upon or considered low, I didn't understand why I felt that way towards girls but once I got to kno...... 1 reply
im pansexual. back in 2nd year high school i had this crush on my classmate who was gay. it wasn't really weird or anything. i've also had a crush on someone who was a tomboy. i didn't really think about it that much, although when i entered college people were really open-minded so i ended up admitting it (verbally) to my friends and my sister. fo...... reply
Well, you don't need to fall in love to figure out your sexual orientation. Because sexual orientation just deals with sexual attraction which has nothing to do with love. To figure out your romantic orientation, yeah you'll only know after you have a crush on someone (unless you're aromantic in which case you'll only know after you haven't ever ha...... reply
No way! XD look everyone have they own way to feel things and anybody are the same. I'm demi and pan O~o but that never bother me nor make me doubt abouth my sexuality. The gender never was a problem for me, I only love the person and thats all, and it was always like this in a natural way. But look, everyone have they own moment and they own way t...... reply
To answer your question, no you do not have to fall in love with another or same gender to know you sexuality. Then to answer your other question, I realized I wasn't straight the moment I had a full on makeout session with a girl.... In the first grade. Im not even lying. 1 reply
Uhh, when I saw an attractive person of the opposite sex, and got aroused? It's just something you know, when it happens to you. Some fall in love, others get turned on, etc. Everyone's different. Just go with how you feel. reply
I actually realized my bi-potential thanks to yaoi. XD I started reading it, I started exploring the LGBT+ themes and thought, what if I could like another girl. And yeah, I came to the conclusion that yes, I get attracted to both, though differently. And thinking back on my childhood and growing up I actually did have dreams about kissing girls, I...... reply
When I was 7, my brother came out to me because he wanted to be able to have his friends, their lovers and his lover over without freaking me out. So, I have been around gay men for forty years. I was about 8 or 9 when I realized that I found women just as appealing and attractive as men. I had a crush on both of my best friends. One was male and t...... 1 reply
