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Thoughts (?)
(The story is translated so you might think different when you read the original, this is just my understanding lmao)
So I'm in this BL group and one of the members shared their story saying that when they were at a store, the guy in front of them bought condoms and lube, and by doing so they internally screamed (idk why) BUT they said that they/internally/ screamed even louder when the guy walked out and met another guy.
First time I read this I already felt uncomfortable cause yah know it sounds like they're fetishizing them but I didn't say anything cause I'm shy and not sure about my stand point and I was hoping atleast one or two will say something but I checked it again and all of the feedback is positive...
So I wanna hear other people's opinions, am I wrong? was she wrong? Am I just overreacting?
Naw man, that’s clear fetishization. I feel like as soon as the group starts talking about real life people, that is when it starts to get out of hand. You should encourage them to not fetishize gay people and make sure they know that yaoi is nothing like real life. 1 reply
Its weird
people can think that (any) couple looks cute together but fangirling about them having sex is weird, why are you so invested in these strangers sex life makes me uncomfortable 1 reply
My answer to this might trigger a lot of people but this is my thought because idk where they're from.
Maybe they're behaving like that cus it's not a common thing in their country?(cus it's not common in mine). So maybe instead of fetishizing, they're fawning over them instead.
Please don't come at me (rudely) because since I'm not in the group ch...... 1 reply
