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I'm disappointed that I think like this
When looking at two (real)men together I almost immediately think about which one will top or bottom. I know that it's not right and I think about other things like which food I'll eat to stop that thought immediately but I'm so disappointed at myself for even thinking that because I know that people are not things that I assign roles to. Any useful advice to stop these kinds of thoughts?
Good on you for recognizing that these thoughts are wrong! Now, we can't always prevent thoughts (they tend to just happen), so what you do is basically... Internally call yourself out for them? Self-correct. If you start thinking "Oh, I bet that guy is this position in bed", cut yourself off and go "No, that's fetishizing people, and I need to not...... reply
