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I have geniunely fallen in love with an imaginary person in my dreams

BubblegumB!tch BubblegumB!tch 2020-10-08 10:52:13 About have a weird or unusual dream
I have a had two dreams where I fell in love with two people at different times months apart. Both dreams felt so real and the people were people I have never met before.
In the first dream I fell in love with a girl who had tanned skin, blonde hair and liked to get in trouble. She was shorter than me/ same height of me and in my dream she had a boyfriend but actually wasn't into him, and we held hands and leaned against each other and at the end of my dream we kissed and it ended.
In the second dream I fell in love with a boy with pale white skin, freckles and blonde hair. He was tall and lanky and had a sweet smile. We were talking outside of his house, and it felt like it was simmish or something with how we were speaking it was so awkward but it felt like normal english. We held hands and then I woke up.

The reason these dreams were weird/ unusual was that after I had woken up days later I was still day dreaming about those dreams just repeating those moments. It is not so much with the boy anymore because one of my friends compared him to someone in real life and can't see the dreams person face anymore without the real person, but low key I still feel like I'm in love with the girl even now. So.. yeah... kind of weirds me out and kind of depresses me that I'll never be able to see her again.

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Kemi’sPOV October 8, 2020 5:24 pm

I’m no expert in well...anything, but maybe you were just projecting somethings about someone or some people that you like into one personified form. I think maybe you felt like u fell in love with them because of your strong like for those certain features? It could also probably mean you just long for some love. To be honest though, you should try your best to move on from that girl and whoever else you may dream-up and fall in love with. Dreaming lets you experience your own genuine emotions (since its in your head which obviously controls your emotions) as if they are real bc they ARE in a sense. But considering that whoever you fell in love with does not exist and even if someone like them ‘existed’ they would not be the same and you’d only see them for the person that they look like in that one dream you had, you really should try to forget or at least move on from those people. I’m sorry you had to go through that kinda thing tho. I’m sure many ppl have similar experiences so it might help to look it up? Hope this helped :D

BubblegumB!tch October 10, 2020 12:20 am

Thankyou : D. You're so nice!! But don't worry, I know they're not real people and will never exist. I am kind of a romantic paradox kind of person so it makes sense that I have those kind of dreams ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

¯_(ツ)_/¯ Spoopy October 8, 2020 10:57 am

I've actually had the same experience I've "fallen in love" with three people. Like you've said the dream felt so real and I actually felt the feeling in my heart, when I woke up my heart was aching. Even though it was three different people it felt like one to me, I just want to relive that experience again.