Problematic Glorification in Yaoi

I have seen an abundant and gurl... lemme tell you ABUNDANT amount of glorification of rape in yaois which is problematic. I don't know how but I saw people praising said characters doing this like 'its hot, omg hes so hot AAA' and I wanna know how you guys find..

forceful, or no consent sex aka rape.. hot?
and honestly I can go on and list yaois i've seen here that seemed to include rape in their stories brushed it off like it was a part of their life.

except for Sign's main character jesus christ protect those kinky bastards.