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Being single
As I go through the comments and see all the posts about loving being single and such, to those people, don't you get lonely? Yeah, being single has its moments but when you go to share whatever experience it was only to realize there is no one there, just a big black hole, how do you handle that in a healthy manner? (Getting drunk does not count)
For me It fucking sucks yeah you have the freedom to flirt or have time to yourself but that shit gets hella lonely-, drowning myself in shoujo mangas, romance shit, otome games ,otome CDs,r18 japanese and Korean male asmr,yatoyagami and other shit thats probably a cry for help makes it all better
Yeah I listen to r18 Japanese and Korean male as...... reply
Honestly I've never dated anyone or have been intrested in anyone like that. People say I'm asexual because of that but idk. I'm still like figuring things out. I'm fine being alone, I kinda like it. I also feel they wont understand me and I'm not fit for having a significant other. Love to me is a hit confusing tbh. Sometimes I do want like a boyf...... reply
Honestly No. I’ve never felt lonely. Sure I’ve maybe wanted to talk to someone from time to time but I’m naturally an introvert and can quite happily experience stuff on my own. I find that I have to change a lot of myself to be in a relationship and where I am mentally and physically at the moment being single is the best possible reality fo...... reply
nein sis nein,if you have friends you dont need that person. and ı have trust issues so its so hard for me to do that. ı don't want to share a single moment with a living being in that virus times . ı dont even love myself how do ı love someone? there is a people for each of us and this person shows up one day andddddd you have your mom/dad/si...... reply
I'm one of the very few with a twisted personality. If I feel too lonely, I think of all of the things I would do to a potential partner, and then realize that it's better for said potential partner if I were single. Or I talk to the few friends I have. reply
I've dated lot and had a few relationships. Being by myself gave me time to focus on me and the relationship with myself. Now i have too much self love to even care about others. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
No date? fine, i'll take myself out to eat and watch anime in the restaurant (I have done this. It was amazing) The best way to deal with being lonely i...... reply
Oh there are times when I feel that black hole in my chest thinking about how nice it would be in a relation or something like that, but it's more of a small sting than a punch in the gut lmao.
What i do is just the usual things that makes me happy with my youth, and I always just laugh about thinking on that trivial matter (relationship thingz). ...... reply
Being single is nice because you don't have to think about whether the other is being faithful or not, you worry/stress less, you can look like a hobo everyday if you want to, and you don't have to shave!
Being without a relationship gives one plenty of time to think about themselves, because before anything else, YOU are FIRST.
•Maybe you feel...... reply
I am single by choice. I just dont want my heart to fall inlove for someone who cant even take care of their own heart and end up breaking mine. My heart and mind has enough mental breakdown to deal with and I think I'm falling again and I hope its for the right person. reply
Saying hi to those ,who are in post-breakup depression and such.
But detaching this period , when you trying to get through an EMOtional disaster ( that i dont consider as "being single" just bc it's different), from general "singleness " , i can say one thing for sure : being in relationship - means being brave and mb reckless. That means not bei...... reply
