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How to tell you're in love?
I was diagnosed with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) since college, and I have abandonment issues. I don't believe in marriage but sometimes I believe my dream is to have a nice family, I love my fiancee but being attached to one man scares me. What if I'm a terrible wife, what if I don't love him. Things can go from hate to love to hate for me with him. Sex is more of a chore for me than joy but I was assaulted when I was young so that may be a factor. My wedding is around 6 months from now and to this day I still don't know if I love him or is he just the easy way, so I don't have to be alone.
Close your eyes and imagine.
Ten years from now you are married to him. Can you see yourself growing old with him? Does he love you?
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If yes. Don't worry about all the other things.
A friend once asked me. "If you can choose only one what would you choose: Would you choose to have a lover that you desperately love but he doesn't love you, or ...... reply
