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How to tell you're in love?
I was diagnosed with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) since college, and I have abandonment issues. I don't believe in marriage but sometimes I believe my dream is to have a nice family, I love my fiancee but being attached to one man scares me. What if I'm a terrible wife, what if I don't love him. Things can go from hate to love to hate for me with him. Sex is more of a chore for me than joy but I was assaulted when I was young so that may be a factor. My wedding is around 6 months from now and to this day I still don't know if I love him or is he just the easy way, so I don't have to be alone.
You're probably older than me and know much more about life than I do, so, I don't know whether this will help you or not. You really can't tell when you're in love. It just happens. You never even know when, how, where and how. You fall in love just like that. But yeah, you can definitely know when you realized your own feelings. Love isn't about...... reply
