Opinions about proshipping

hello! i just want to know ya'lls opinion about this. proship, accdg to urban dictionary, is shipping problematic ships such as incest, age gap, loli, shota etc. antis are those who are against said ships. the two are quite common in twitter fandoms. there's always this constant feud w antis telling proshippers they're a "p3do" for shipping an underage character w an older one or how liking incestual ships is the same as codoning it irl. i'm generally okay with people shipping whoever they want even if its "problematic". for me, i understand that fiction has no bounds. its about the people being able to healthily separate fiction from reality. so i just honestly live by the principle of "if you don't like something then don't read or look at it" I just respect people to do what they want in their fandom space, as long as its properly tagged and is with warnings. any thoughts about this?