how tf u read bl or smt then gonna say being gay is wrong

I saw someone saying " ik its wrong to read yaoi but being gay is also wrong(im not homophobic)'".Honestly it just made me so mad cuz do straight ppl think that we just wake up and be like "u know what imma be a minority and love the same gender and prob get some hate one in awhile cuz why not" like no its not smt u choose who ur attracted to.