i'm kinda in the opposite side. i'd get anxiety when my parents say theyre proud of me cause being proud of me just means i have to do better in the future and i cant afford to make mistakes or they'd be disappointed. compliments in general dont make me feel good, they drain my energy cause i think people would just expect more from me 4 reply
Nothing? I don't care if they're "proud of me" or not. Their preconceived notions of what I should or shouldn't be mean literally nothing. I live for myself, and I don't care if the result of that is in line with what they want for me or not. That's neither my problem nor my priority, nor should it be.
And honestly, some of y'all could stand to ha...... reply
I would be so happy that I’ll be able to sweep the ocean.
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Bc it would probably be impossible for them to say that. reply
I would probably be happy for a whole day and the next. Well, mabye not cause my mom says that alot... Idk I haven't heard it from my dad that much so I'd just be happy...? reply
I'll probably just ignore it cuz I've never once heard it im my life and my parents are asian and also very strict. They won't mean it if they do say it, im pretty satisfied with how things are ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ reply
