How do other asexual people think about sex in romance comics(manga&ect)

I might sound like a child by saying this but I find it uncomfortable when I’m reading a straight, what I assumed to be sweet and fluffy, romance between two individuals and all of a sudden sex and sexual acts become such a large part of the characters thinking. I know that sex is a way to show affection and can be a large part in peoples lives. But whenever it comes up in something I read it makes me feel bad about being this way, bad about being ace (of course I do make sure to check the genre and tags).

So I was wondering if other people like me also feel this way and if there’s a way I can get over this? Idk man I’m just sick of feeling bad about something I can’t control, I would also just like to know if others are going through something similar.

I know it sounds like I’m whining but the more I think about it the worse I feel and rn I would just like some comfort :)