girls reading bl

ive always wanted to ask this

but whats your opinions on girls reading bl?
i personally dont think theres a problem with it when you just read for entertainment etc, though i do find it weird/unsettling when some girls that do read bl will make it a whole personality trait and kinda fetishize any mlm they see (real life & fictional)

^ (like when they'll see a mlm couple and instantly wonder whos top & bottom, or ship two people just because theyre men...)

idk im just kinda asking because ive seen many people saying girls shouldnt read bl at all which ive definitely argued against, seeing as many of them are in fact made by women.

but i dont wanna sound insensitive and arrogant so pls thoughts (￣∇￣")