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Semes & Ukes
Maybe it’s just me, but I feel uncomfortable when people use the words. Like, I don’t know, I just feel like top & bottom is a better choice in my opinion if you’re referring to them that way. I mean, you can also called them by their name, or if you forget, their hair colour or height or eye colour or something other than their positions in bed.
I guess it doesn’t really hurt anyone though so I don’t really care, I just want to know if I’m the only one that feels a tiny bit uncomfortable with the words.
Maybe I’m just being sensitive, but I’m typically not, but I could be, so sorry.
Fujos: Omg he didn't deserve that we gotta protect our gaybies
Also fujos: Don't hate on characters you don't like it's so rude what if someone said that about you? (This from the people who completely fucking shit all over literally any character that "gets in the way" of the "main couple", mind you)
Still fujos: They're just fictional character...... reply
I also find it weird sometimes when I see comments where people call the bottom, uke, and the top, seme. But I see those types of comments often so I got accustomed to them. I think it also depends on how you also feel about yaoi/BL.
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Idc if they're fictional, referring to characters as their positions during sex is weird. Should be unlearned and shouldn't be normalized. I can see why gay/bi guys feel fetishized because no one refers to het or lesbian characters with such demeaning language. AGAIN IDC IF THEYRE FICTIONAL, IT'S STILL MESSED UP. 1 reply
top, seme, tachi. bottom, uke, neko. different words, same context. idk how it makes you uncomfortable if they're just synonymous. like sex equals to intercourse? but we use sex. dick, cock, and penis. all words mean schlong. personal preference i guess? i too find it funny if they refer to it as penis lol. it sound less sexy to me since that's the...... 1 reply
I do think it’s pretty weird (very rarely I’ve done it too in the past-but I don’t anymore) but I find it DOUBLY weird (and gross) when they use those labels for shonen-ai cuz like-????? You don’t know? You’re not only literally stereotyping (which is gross) but also not the place?? It’s shounen-ai for a reason, stop thinking abt sex po...... 1 reply
