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Semes & Ukes
Maybe it’s just me, but I feel uncomfortable when people use the words. Like, I don’t know, I just feel like top & bottom is a better choice in my opinion if you’re referring to them that way. I mean, you can also called them by their name, or if you forget, their hair colour or height or eye colour or something other than their positions in bed.
I guess it doesn’t really hurt anyone though so I don’t really care, I just want to know if I’m the only one that feels a tiny bit uncomfortable with the words.
Maybe I’m just being sensitive, but I’m typically not, but I could be, so sorry.
top, seme, tachi. bottom, uke, neko. different words, same context. idk how it makes you uncomfortable if they're just synonymous. like sex equals to intercourse? but we use sex. dick, cock, and penis. all words mean schlong. personal preference i guess? i too find it funny if they refer to it as penis lol. it sound less sexy to me since that's the...... 1 reply