To girls that aren't ace

Okay so like I was masturbating for the first time in a long time and I've never had an orgasm before. For the first time, I could feel it coming and I literally paused for a SECOND and it disappeared- I was pissed because i wanted an orgasm and yes, I know masturbating isn't all about orgasming but still. Anyways, tell me if you've had similar experiences and tell me tips <333