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How did you come out? Or, how do you plan on coming out? Any advices??
I'm planning on coming out to my cousin before this summer ends (she's the only understanding person in our family and I think she has a girlfriend) but I don't have the courage to do so. I'm super confused how I'll do it. And I would like to learn your stories about coming out or maybe some tips!!
((I think there was a thing like this but I haven't been in here for such a long time so idk I'm sorryy))
My friends know cus I was always pretty open about ever since highschool so it wasnt a shock to them but my family doesn't know and i don't plan to tell them bc they would disown me reply
Go for it if you're comfortable to do so, that's amazing! Just tell them. And, if you like to be extreme, you can always count on ~puns~
Jump out of your closet screaming like a dying duck; put rainbows and write "Im " on a mug and dramatically drink from it in front of them ("just chilling, sipping my cup of tea" with the applying-blush-face)
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I haven’t told my family since I have no reason to like it’s none of their business anyways on who I date or what gender they are but they already know I’m bi or whatever reply
My friends and classmates are pretty chill about sexuality so it wasn't an issue coming out to them but to my mom and sis was a little different...
I come out a year ago to my mom and sis and this is what happened
It's been a long timw since we have a family bonding my mom, sis and me we were at the mall while my sis and I waited for my mom orderi...... reply
Sometimes people that know you know more than they let on. I mean, when I mentioned the term to my mom she was like " well, that makes sense." I haven't mentioned it to my siblings but I'm sure they'd have the same reaction. Friends or coworkers wouldn't understand though. But I guess when asexuals are less than 1% of the world's population, what ...... 1 reply
It took me 15 years to finally realize I was Demisexual and panromantic so I was scared to come out at first. But luckily I had my cousin who identified as a transgender FTM and helped me get over my fears slowly but surely. I told my girlfriend first and she said she would still love me no matter what and that gave me the courage to tell my dad wh...... 1 reply
I would never come out because my mom is scary lol
That's why first I'm going to complete my study get a high paying job so I can say NO to marriage
And if my secret is revealed then they'll not be able to do anything because till then i would be independent rich man lmao hahahahahha 1 reply
I'm a lesbian and I came out to my sister first! She's always been really understanding but I was still terrified at the time.
I was struggling a lot to find the right time to tell her, but I finally told her in a school parking lot and she was really supportive and we talked about it a lot. It really helps to explain who you are and maybe talk abo...... 1 reply
I'm sorry you're struggling with all of this, but it's something every queer person goes through.
I was a pretty obviously LGTBQI+ from the start, it's one of the reasons I got more abuse than my siblings - my dad just knew. I didn't really come out to family cos it was a toxic situation. But I was always 'out' if that makes sense. From the time ...... reply