For my precious genshin impact player

Im sorry for taking your time like im so sorry its just i wanna ask smthng. Im planning to play genshin impact for a while and i just wanna ask your opinion. Which traveler should i choose lol like aether or lumine and is there have kinda different power or smthng bc most of my friends who play genshin impact play as aether (they’re girl tho and myself is a girl) and i know this is weird and embarassing question lol. Ah this is so embarassing ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ (btw sorry for the bad grammar and im so so sorry for taking your precious time)