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I might be gender fluid HELP owo
Okay, I’ve classified myself as a “fujoshi” for most of my days of reading bl, and I thought my interest in bl/mlm was becoming fetish-like. I’m between bi and pan rn (never dated so-) and I thought that’s why I always imagine myself as a dude getting it on with another dude. HOWEVER (here’s the kicker) for the first time I clearly thought to myself while looking at a panel of a uke being cute “I wish I had a peen so I could...ya know” etc etc. I mean having one biologically attached to my body. And then everything fell into place: - I already get misgendered ( because of my deep voice) and baggy clothes combo, but I’ve never really cared, in fact I didn’t dislike or feel off put by it ever -a lot of days I think “I wish I had a male -like body” but there’s this weird debate in my mind cause I also love my female body as it is. - but the reason I can’t bring myself to a conclusion is because I feel that I may just have a prolonged liking to bl that spurred these thoughts, rather than me actually being gender fluid. ┗( T﹏T )┛
Well in my opinion you don't always have to label yourself. I feel the same way as you and often get told stuff for it but in my opinion just go with the flow and don't let others tell you what are or should be. Hopefully this helps in some way (￣∇￣") 1 reply
