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Should I Break up With my Girlfriend?
I really really like her, but she's very high maintenance and texts me all the time. I've just realized this, but she keeps me up almost half of the time. I'll usually go to the hospital(She works there) when I'm finished with school which is around 6:00-6:30, and I'll leave at maybe 8:00, we'll usually come over to each others homes on Fridays and Saturdays, and sleep there. When i'm not with her she gets kinda sluggish and sulks for a while. After I leave we'll usually text and call each right after I get home, the thing is its really bad for me since I go to school, I usually only get 4 hours of sleep and go to school for the whole day. She doesn't go to college and is helping her mother with her hospital(take his money starts playing). Anyways I also think this relationship is bad for her since she's a bit too obsessive, there are many times where she's been really clingy when I go out with my friends and usually comes with. She's on really bad terms with one of my really good friends because "I spend too much time with her" anyways I've been thinking about telling her that I want to take a break, but at the same time I don't want to.
Try work it out with her. Tell her why you can't do so and so.Tell her reasons for that. Communicate with her. If she gets irritated with that. I think maybe you can consider leaving. I really suggest you try to find things/situations that suits you both. reply
If its just time that you’re worried about, then take a paper (or more) and write down your schedule (including free times - use it wisely - and sleep time). And get your girlfriend to understand that time is something that you need more of to continue being constant in your relationship. But just in case if the paper gets ripped, then make sure...... reply
love, i think she's really obsessive. I'm gonna take this from my fictional romance knowledge, but in a relationship, you're not supposed to feel suffocated. She should be more cautious knowing you have many things on your plate. You need sleep, and breaks from each other, that's a fact. No matter how much you like someone, it doesn't mean you can ...... reply
Communication and Comprehension is key i cannot stress this enough. Don’t let what ppl say influence u in the heat of the moment. Make ur decision carefully, it is yours and her relationship at the end of the day, nobody elses. Speaking from aLot of experience (: reply
If your constantly around someone it leaves no time for u to grow by urself u soon become dependent or overly attached. Everyone needs private time away from each other as if you are constantly together u soon will become agitated or even begin to hate ur relationship. As you said u don’t want to take a break or ur hesitant so u need to have bett...... reply
I don't see the point of being with someone who doesn't consider your situation and circumstances, and who is so overwhelming like that i don't know but if even the time you spend together is draining your energy then what's the point of all of his. reply
You should try to talk to her first and try to work things through. Maybe there is a reason she is acting like this, maybe she has abandonment issues. There is usually always a reason why somebody is acting like this. If this relationship is taking a toll on your mental health you defiantly need to take a break. If its affecting your school work an...... reply
