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my friend and i have been acting like we're dating for a couple months (calling eachother love and saying ily <3 etc) but idk if we r actually dating??? we never asked each other out and we've only met irl 2 times. i dont have any romantic feelings for them but i think they do. i heard from another friend that they have actual feelings and think we r actually dating (they said this back in february so maybe it changed???)
the problem is that there is another person i like who also kinda likes me (also complicated,,,)
i feel guilty and im wondering if i should ask the friend im "dating" if we r actually together. im worried i might hurt her feelings tho :(
any suggestions?

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um- 09 04,2021

they didn't even confess, and friends say ily to each other all the time. if they have feelings, they should talk to you about that, not go along with fake dating reply

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UNPOPULAR ROMANTIC 09 04,2021

uhhhh, idk the whole situation here but why would you even act like youre dating someone you dont like while youre in love with someone else?!...anyway i think you should break it off real quick, like make it clear to her that you dont like her. take the initiative to sort things up but be gentle about it, but not too gentle tho. she might get idea...... reply

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｡WintersAreCold｡ 09 04,2021

Firstly, you’ll HAVE to find out what kind of relationship ( - connection to each other) that you have will that girl. . . . If its friends: Then you should start by... If you have stronger and changed feelings for that girl;... confessing your feelings, or wait for a better time. If you want to stay as friends with that gi...... reply

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fuyuhiko kuzuryu 09 04,2021

ngl sounds like a super difficult situation,so im sorry ur going through that, but if i were you i'd ask them about it. as much as its a difficult conversation and stuff, i think its best to not ignore it and face the issue head on. ofc, its a super hard situation and i dont even know if id have the courage to do that, so props to you if you do. y...... reply

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charcoal 09 04,2021

Be straight with her and ask, leaving it be will only make you feel more guilty and won't resolve anything. reply

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YesButLikeNo 09 04,2021

I suggest just having a serious conversation with her. If you still are fine with joking around, which I do with my friends as well, then just say something along the lines of "hey, someone told me you actually liked me, that's not true, right?" and insist that you want clarification. Even if she still is joking around saying "ily reply

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