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confused about yourself before?
have you ever wondered out of the line. what i mean is, ever thought that you might be able to like someone of the same sex, and then be confused with yourself and wonder why you were even thinking that, then back out on those thoughts. Basically feel as if it could be possible but at the same time feel like it cant.
The confusion is normal, I would say, especially if you're someone who has been largely surrounded and brought up with conservative values and ideals, or even come from a religion that strongly condemns same sex relationships. After growing up in those conditions, there will always be a part of you that tells you that it's weird or strange to think...... reply
Sometimes I believe I'm aromantic. I'm 18 and I've only had 3 crushes in my entire life. They all lasted less than a month and I realized I was only sexually attracted them, not so much romantically. I'm sexually attracted to both women and men but I've never had a romantic attraction to either. Maybe I just haven't found the right one? My friends ...... 3 reply
I'm still confused. I've always thought I was attracted to boys. But there was a girl who did this sport with me, and we had another class with her too. She was my ideal person, but to this day I'm not sure if she was my idea model of who I wanted to be or my ideal soulmate. I remember google searching a lot on the differences between admiration an...... 1 reply
I've been confused once. I have a best friend who is bisexual and who actually confessed to me during middle school, but I rejected her because I'm obviously straight. Well, at least I think so...
I used to be jealous over her talking with others, back then I thought it was because she was more outgoing than me and got along with people better than...... 2 reply
I personally like the metaphor that sexuality is a spectrum. So between straight and gay/lesbian, everyone can find their own place in that scale whether that is completely straight, gay, or bi. Or more commonly in some space in between.
As a 15-year-old girl, I'm still unsure but I would probably place myself as bi, but slightly more attracted to...... reply
Yes, for a couple of years now I thought that I was straight but no one can imagine me dating a guy, but I actually don't care who I date anymore if I love someone than I'll go for them I'm not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.
I'm pansexual reply
To be honest i have never felt confusion towards my gender identity or the objects of my affection, if i have to define myself i could say i am pansexual and mostly monogamous, even thought i have been in a couple of stress free open relationships i have never been able to love and care for more than one person at a time; i've had a number of casua...... reply
I'm a lesbian. I came up with this conclusion like two years ago I guess, when I fell in love with my best friend. At first I was kind of confused because I thought that it was just jeaulousy over her being with other people. But it never really bother me. I think that the hardest part to deal with was that I had a crush on my best friend, and I di...... 4 reply
I'd say I'm bisexual. I like men but I also had crushes for women. I'm still confused about myself 'cause I'm young and never dated anyone seriously. But, if you're confused about yourself, I think you should stop thinking about it. Thinking and reflecting will bring you nowhere, experiencing will answer some of your questions about yourself: final...... 1 reply
I am bisexual and I am drawn sexually to both men and women since I was 12 and I am now 28 so its not a phase. I realised it when I began thinking that I could love them both the same and I would pick female friends who I was attracted to, but still mostly date men. For the most part I will marry a man, not because I have to but I prefer their com...... reply
