I agree it's a concern, and a very valid one. A lot of the time I just won't read the comments, even though rape and dub-con are kinks of mine. It does bother me when people defend it as if it was good or romantic, rather than just admit, "That was hot/well-written/evocative, even if it's messed up."
I think part of it comes down to that: Sometime...... 3 reply
I was mistaken for ace back in high school for about 18 months by my friends. I didn't learn about this until I was hanging out with one of them and making all sorts of comments about the boys soccer team playing shirts v skins on the next field.
"Oh! So... I guess you're not ace, then?"
"What? No. Why would you even think that?"
"You never join...... reply
Hidoku Shinaide. I usually skip the first chapter, and the summary kept me from reading it for over a year, but I love that one. For some reason I just can't like the seme in Elektel Delusion. I've read the whole thing, and I didn't *dislike* it, but I don't really like it either. reply
What I like? My smile and my ass. And odd combination, I'll admit, but those are the two things I get complimented on all the time (thought compliments on the ass often go through two or three people before I hear them. I've been lucky enough to avoid most catcalling. Which goes back to the smile, I think. My face looks quite a bit younger than I a...... 2 reply
I'm straight and usually read yaoi. I will read hetero stuff if I'm interested in the story, but usually then I turn to novels instead and avoid erotica of all sorts. Not because I dislike any of it especially, but because I'm not interested in girls. At all. And yaoi is mostly porn. The sex is usually the driving force of the plot, and the storyli...... reply
did made a horrible mistake
