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help me pls
my bf keeps pressuring me into sex wtf do i do, like he will just bring it up at random and it makes me uncomfortable bc idk if he’s joking or not, does he expect it from me? honestly it’s really annoying and i’ve told him i don’t want to, one time we were in his car and he tried to slide his hand up my skirt, i yelled at him and he said i was overreacting. there’s a lot of girls that like him, he’s good looking and i feel that i’m not doing enough, but i honestly don’t have any respect for a guy that has to do all that and begs for pussy, it’s creepy as shit. i want to breakup if it continues tbh, but i’m scared he might do something if we’re alone, so idk how to go about it. all my friends really like him and think he’s amazing, and ik that if i broke up with him there’s going to be so many ugly rumours about me going around, pple already told me how tf did u get him to like u, or wow he’s out of ur league and shit, idk if they’re joking. so yeah i’m in a very weird situation rn. I want to focus on myself, plus he’s really controlling and got mad one time bc i didn’t tell him where i was volunteering, like this guy started screaming and shit. I’ve also seen is phone history and he searches up a lot of gay porn, lmao i wish i was making this up. he’s not homophobic, transphobic, he meets the bare minimum in that, but i think he’s closeted and has major anger issues. idk how to leave him i’m scared.
I feel like hes trying to have sex with u to try and feel like hes straight, obviously still wrong, its fucking creepy.
You should try and lie about your own sexuality to get him off your plate or smth, he seems really aggressive and probably needs help. 1 reply
girl, you have mentioned a lot of red flags in that tiny little paragraph of yours, so my advice is to rethink the whole relationship.
but first,never let anybody pressure you into sex. I had a similar situation, and sadly i ended up having sex with my ex, and just felt like shit bc i didn't do it when i was mentally ready.
To answer you question,...... reply
Just leave him he seems very controlling and pressuring so just break up. Its not right for him to do those things and who cares what people think. Tell ur friends what he has been doing too and then breakup with him. Stay safe girlie. 1 reply
Like wtf girl breakup with him, it's your life you're the one in the relationship not your friends or those random weirdos that'll be saying stuff about you if they want him so bad they can have him. Man at this point you're caring too much about peoples opinion, don't let people tell you that he his out your league you need to cut yourself off fro...... reply
bestie- u gotta drop him. I'm scared he'll do something to you like the way he touched u without consent. In dating, respect, boundaries and consent matters and if he can't fulfil that then he's not ready for a relationship. Tell him ur uncomfortable. and pls don't mind what the rumors says about you alright! you worth more than what they think^^ b...... reply
umm, i actually wanna give u some real advice here. Break up with him , u should confide this to ur closest friends ; also don't go calling people who don't understand u friends. About the gay porn thing maybe he just is curious !? or not we don't know for sure right ? I really don't know what is going on the ground level there, but one thing i kno...... 2 reply
break up with him, but have someone there with you. he's clearly not stable and has tried to assault you many times. if he really liked/loved you, he would respect your wishes and that you weren't ready, not force and try over and over again, to get in your pants. it doesn't matter what other people think, its for your safety. if rumors go around, ...... reply
