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Have you ever been called "pretty" by the gender of interest for you?
I want to ask y'all sometbing. So, I was reading this post about counting how many times you've been called pretty or have had someone say you're beautiful. They also added some metrics such as people your own age and the opposite sex/gender and being complimented behind your back. And, I was floored. Like, sure, women have called me beautiful. Old men have called me beautiful. Older men (not old, just much older than me and the type who seems to lust after young twenty-somethings) have complimented me, but a man my age, who I find equally as beautiful has never complimented me. Like, never! No one (I am attracted to, physically, visually, emotionally, etc.) has ever asked for my number, no random cuties is adding me on social media. I'm floored at this realization! Like....am I ugly to young men my age?
first of all, I'm assuming you're straight?
Beauty is a subjective thing. Sure, there are some people who you could call beautiful in a more broad, universal sense, but they are most likely seen as beautiful because they are so according to their culture and time period. Nowadays in the West we have a lot of different beauty standards, we have the...... reply