For me 'vanilla' means slow, meaningful lovemaking without any Major kinks and acrobatics :D Just fuck around passionately and enjoying being together with someone, feeling the other body. It's gentler sex with lots of gentle kissing.
Non-vanilla I would consider more frantic, more forceful with kinky things involved. Hard kissing, grabbing, moving...... reply
I agree with you that vanilla tends to be more gentler and plain to the point where your comfortable. Though for personally I consider it to be like the basic building block. Where are slowly possibly going to transition to something kinky whether its trying new positions,hair pulling, playing with toys etc. reply
Vanilla sex to me is considered just regular standard sex, the in out.. except lesbians standard is eating out. No experimenting and just soft and gentle.
Omg idk where to begin, I have too many kinks. I do have a fantasy I have which is be tied up, choked and spanked by 2 guys while they DP me I can only dream they make a mess of me. Btw I have...... 3 reply
Well vanilla sex is just regular sex. And then my kinks are... well I would really go along with almost anything but a master/slave role is kinda interesting... ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ reply
To me vanilla sex is the sweet gentle kind, what people would consider 'normal' sex. It's not rough but generally love making without the extra stuff.
I'm into female domination, and I'm also a bit of a sadist so seeing my partner cry in a bit of pain or extreme pleasure is a huge turn on. My biggest kink currently is having my partner call me Da...... 3 reply
vanilla sex to me is a cute, slow and safe sex... with a lovey dovey and calm vibe...
hmmm my kinks are being humiliated, being a servant, being bitten, being submissive, age gap, roleplaying, being bottom to a crossdressing man or feminine man... am i forgetting something? i like to please my husband too reply
