First Sex

It’s really up to you meaning that when you’re ready for sex. No one should do it when they are unsure of it. He should understand or at least respect your decision. My first time I regretted it because I did it so that that person would be happy and that is not how it should be because it ended up being heavy on my shoulders.   reply

Talk to him about it. About how you feel, you're not comfortable yet etc. whatever. If you still feel scared, I wouldn't do it if I were you. First time is always a bit scary, but JUST A BIT if you're already comfortable with your partner. Because you're here asking that I think you're not ready yet. TALK TO HIM. It's your first time, he should u......   reply

If you are uncomfortable and scared and he doesn't respect those feelings, leave the guy... Also BDSM should only be done with someone you are 100% comfortable with as the whole scene is based on consent. Doing BDSM for your first time when you aren't feeling comfortable is ridiculous. Take that from someone who has been part of the 'london scene' ......   1 reply

Don't do it until you guys talk about it. Next time he brings it up have an honest conversation and voice your concerns. I haven't done it yet but i know that the first time is something nerve wracking and I can't even imagine trying to do something when I didn't want to do it in the first place Σ(っ°Д °;)っ. If he doesn't take your feeling......   reply

If you're not ready, don't have sex. If he's ready to have sex, don't feel pressured to have sex. Imo, he can wait until you're ready. If you want advice for when you're ready: the first time hurt so much when my cherry popped that I pushed my bf off me and we stopped (I wasn't ready anymore and he respected that). I remember there being a little b......   reply

Wait until you are no longer scared. Also, if he says "but if you loved me you would do this" answer him with "but if you loved me you would wait until I am ready". If he can not wait, let him go. You need to be ready. As to the SM, if you don't want to do it, don't do it. It's your body, and your decision.   reply

I am sorry, but how old are you? Are you sure about doing It?   2 reply

If you do not feel comfortable, absolutely do not let yourself be "talked into it". If he really cares about you, then he will wait until YOU are ready. He is, and that's him, but this is you. If he tries to convince you otherwise, then he cares more about his needs then yours. Don't let hm twists things around, or make you feel guilty, or make you......   reply

Just be honest with him. 1st time isn't easy at all. And yeah u want to be good with him, but he also should be with u. If he can understand u r not ready yet and don't want then this is a good one. If he don't, u can throw him away. That's how it works :)   1 reply

This is crazy but get a back up plan. In case he's about to destroy your life. How dare you're giving your body easily like that. As if your future self not blaming you for anything.   reply