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Plz help me I'm so confused
I'm serious this isn't a joke so if you don't want to take it seriously or can't understand where I'm coming from please don't reply
but anyways I'm a woman but lately I've been feeling completely uncomfortable being one I feel so out of place but I've noticed that when I pretend to be a guy I feel 1000x more comfortable with myself and I'm more so to say open and the social anxiety basically just disappears I've always been like this it's not a recent thing but I have just recently started learning like a few years ago about transitioning and everything like that and I've also noticed that other women don't feel the way I do constantly
Like for instance I was playing a game with a mic and got called a guy and just a rush of relief came over me? But then when my brother corrected the person I felt tense again but there are other times when I don't want to be called a guy and I want to be called by she/her but then other times he/him is so much more appealing
But I also feel like I'm just being affected by what I see online when people are so happy to transition or come out in general and I hate feeling like maybe these feelings or thoughts are just coming from that and they aren't real and I just don't know anymore
I could never pass for a guy anyways (I'm not saying that's bad or anything it's okay) I just don't feel comfortable anymore with myself I mean I never really have to begin with but it's just gotten worse
If you have any type of advice it would be really nice to hear it.. also I know this isn't the place to ask but I can't really ask anywhere else
from what you just said, there is a high possibility that you are trans or gender fluid, just be true to yourself I know its confusing, try talking to other trans people (i wanted to answer this cause I'm a lesbian and from the lgbtq+ community so I'm not a trans person nor have I had experiences like yours) no matter what it is you are you, dont g...... 1 reply
I honestly feel like you should talk with a professional about this wether it's a therapist or someone specialising in gender identity.
This could be due to a lot of things maybe from trauma in your life or you could be transgender but for you to figure this out you need to speak to a professional. Sorry i can't give you a better advice 1 reply
I'm by no means a professional but have you ever considered that you may be gender fluid? I have a friend who is and your post reminded me of when I listened to them talking about how they felt.
My advice would be to:
1. Seek professional help- A professional will give you a third person, UNBIASED perspective and help you understand your own feel...... reply
I feel like you may be Non-binary, I myself am Non-binary and used to feel uncomfortable with being seen as a she but felt better being seen as a guy however I felt the most comfortable when I came off as more androgynous, I feel like it suits me more to be referred to as they/them and not been seen as either gender. You don't need to label yoursel...... reply
