How To know if you are fujoshi and what is it

Ok so
t the beginning of my reading BL adventure I came across the word fujoshi

I thought that it meant someone who likes to read or watch bL/yaoi and that is what I sus to say to others about me

It was not then I realized that it apparently meant a bad thing
I guess it still kinda means someone who like yaoi????
I am now confused on the actual meaning about it

I also want to know how to tell a fujoshi
Cause I saw a post saying “dear fujoshis”
It had like said things about them and how they need to stop fetishizing gay men, not being LGBTQ, stop despising lesbians and wanting to be gay

I read through these and I got worried that I would be one as one of them since I once use to say
“I have gender envy”
I only found that on TikTok and I thought it was alright to say or that it was like another joke, I didn’t think that people ACTUALLY had gender envy and wanted to be a different genders

This was one of the things that the “dear dear fujoshi” post said
It said about how they want only to be gay for there sick fantasies

I don’t want to be gay for that reason or gay in general, but does that have to do with feeling like a boy? Because gender envy is like...wanting to become opposite of what you are, I am a female but don’t reallt want to be male just feel more like it...like if I feel like a boy I wear pants or I lower my skirt(my infirm requires me to wear them daily).

My 2nd thing is ‘you love gay people but despise lesbians’
In that “dear fujoshi” post it said that, i don’t read GL cause I’m not really use to it and the only one I have read is the one by the creator of 19 days , is that Realatwd ??? I don’t despise lesbians, they are just lesbians and that’s that. And loving gay people in the way the “dear fujoshi” said I don’t really think like that
If I see 2 guys on the street walking together holding hands then I would just walk past instead of staring T them,cause it’s weird to stare at them just cause of that

Also what if a fujoshi ? I want a detailed explanation because the passed years I have been hearing tht it’s “person who likes reading BL”

“Person who is obsessed with Yaoi and want to be man”

Or

“Person who enjoys engaging in reading homosexual books”

So please tell me to see, I don’t think I am but I feel like I am caus I use to do some of those things in past