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Hey this random girl needs some advice
Hi, thank you for lending me some of your time. Well, it's actually nothing to be honest. So i have a male friend and truth to be told, he's like 25 and I'm like almost a decade younger(i know, it's pretty sus). I do like being his friend, but when i rethink of our age gap, it always feels out of place. And the fact that we're so close we sometimes share our own k*nks you know (omg this feels sooo gross I'm so sorry). So he knows I'm not innocent at all. (I regretted revealing it). So one day, he eventually asked me about adult things and idk why, it felt soo uncomfortable. Like you know, if i talk to my girl friends about the same thing, it feels absolutely normal. And you know, i told him that i don't like to talk about this thing since I'm still a minor. And he was like "But you're not even innocent you know," and it felt really alarmed. And now, idk what to do. Should i just break it or what? I love to be his friend but it feels really awkward talking to him. We have shared many things together, we played together, we talked about our favourites, our daily life, we're BFFs. But now, idk. it suddenly felt like he's a pedo but i know he's not ARGHHHH...
Thank you for sparing me your time reading this. I love you
Heyy it doesn’t have anything to do with your innocence , what matters is that you feel uncomfortable . You’re setting boundaries and he’s clearly not respecting them. Let him know once more but if he still insists break it off .
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i mean if it feels like he is a pedo why are you stalling it? get the fuck out. it doesn't matter if he's sweet or funny, a pedo is a pedo. the chances of him being one do exist so why is that a question.
now think about it. if you don't want to cut it off or cut it off slowly, then you can try being more boring. ramble a lot unnecessarily. lessen...... 1 reply
I definitely think you should break it. You guys may be close but looking at your age gap it could definitely ruin your future, he's also giving me red flags? You clearly stated that you weren't comfortable, and for him to reply like that shows that he's not a good influence, but I don't personally know him irl so I won't dig too deep. I hope you c...... 1 reply
if you like being friends then just tell him that you don't feel comfortable taking about overly dirty things and if he pushes u on it I think you should break it off. I mean it might be slim but he might not know that he was making u uncomfortable so I think u should just talk it out. Also I'm guessing ur like 15? and just let him know that doing ...... 1 reply
It's got nonthing to do with you being pure or not if you're uncomfortable with it he should just stop and he sounds like a pedo you should just cut him off and block him 1 reply
you felt uncomfortable.. something like that.. it crosses the line.. he knew u are a minor but still did that hes 25....he knows what hes doing he knows hes disgusting. i suggest you break the friendship.. my opinion doesnt rlly matter but im just saying that if an adult talks to a minor in that way its still borderline pedophilia 1 reply
if you still want to be friends with him, you need to tell him to stop what he is doing, and if he does not want or continue what he is doing, you really need to break the friendship with him, and for your safety, if in the future he does something to you , kicked his crotch and screamed 2 reply
