why are people silent about problematic issues in yaoi??

Like seriously some people are quick to hate and call anything and everything problematic and toxic in shoujo/josei/ M|W smut series but so quiet about it in yaoi series??? and most of the time the yaoi series are WAAAY more problematic. Like I get if a series is not for you and makes you
uncomfortable but some individuals are weird. Like they obviously dont care about these issues as much as they think they do if they are silent when there is problematic content in yaoi but so vocal about it in non yaoi series. Does that mean that its ok when there is abuse in gay/LGBTQIA+ couples but not it hetero couples???? I know this is fiction but this is how some people act.