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"Gay" Best Friend
My supposedly "gay" best friend, said that, they're gay because gay people are funny. Of course, I thought that was fucking stupid so I asked if he has any interest in guys. He said he doesn't want to date any guys, but do want male friends, and I'm just stuck being confused. I don't want to lose our friendship by saying he's being rude, because he gets real defensive whenever I say shit like that, so I don't know what to do, help??
I really do not think you should be assuming his sexual identity and rather leave him be. He might date guys or not, but I don't really think that has to do with you. You should be giving him space and let him sort it himself. And please do not assume someone else's identity without knowing all their thoughts and interests; that isn't nice too. 2 reply
