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Am I a bad person? what should I do?
SO that's complicated . I'm not showing off or anything but when I like a guy , he just likes me too?? I mean I like that , I love being liked and everything , but I just hate It when someone fall in love with me. Idk man , It makes me so uncomfortable, and I'm so sorry but sometimes I just wanna throw up. It's weird af. I've been like that since my childhood ( you know when you like that cute boy next to you , so you give him a pen lol ). I mean when someone confess I just wanna disappear. I hate hurting ppl and I hate myself for doing it. I mean is that normal? Am I able to fall in love or smth or be in a freaking relationship??
I 'm assuming you're young. Especially in school you're surrounded by a fixed number of people which may lead you to "liking" someone, who if they stood next to someone you could really like, you wouldn't even blink at. I think you just move more emotionally slowly or its just you've never had a real connection with someone just infatuations. Once...... reply
FUCK WAIT ME TOO
i seriously think i'm evil for it. im with it up until the last second. when the feeling is mutual i get nervous and ultimately disgusted. I have no idea why.
I like to think that it maybe wasn't meant to be? but its like that everytime. like a boy, he likes me, im scared (disgusted? naiive?). I have no idea why. I want to see i...... 1 reply
Heaven's no, you're not weird at all! I've seen multiple people with the same feeling in past years as well!
There is a possibility that you are lithromantic (someone who has romantic tendencies that fade upon reciprocation). It is on the aromantic spectrum. If you have some sort of trauma or experiences that negatively impacted your self image a...... reply
I think that's because in the beginning, you feel attraction, but when you get to know them better or see a new side to them the feelings you had just go on reverse.
Chances are that you didn't genuinely like them. You just liked who they seemed to be reply
Ur definitely not a bad person. The confesser isn't a bad person either ( unless they try to force something on you). It's just a matter of personal tastes, and people figuring themselves out. reply
I kinda have the same problem !!! When I like someone romantically they start liking me, I’ve never had a guy reject me ( wow it sounds like I’m bragging, trust me I’m not ) and when they guy starts liking me I lose my interest in them and stop liking them, this happens all the time and also when they try confessing their feelings to me I fe...... 2 reply
Some people going to disagree with me but I don't really care if you disagree because that's what I think and you don't have to agree with me, anyway ah rejecting someone's feelings doesn't make you a bad person, but if you were to accept someone feel that you aren't in love with, then yeah that makes you a bad person.
You see, weird is an opinion...... 1 reply
Though every guy I've liked hasn't liked me back, I feel I might be somewhat able to relate. When i've had my feelings reciprocated by a guy, i usually end up gradually loosing feelings for that person. Ive thought about it alot bc it made me feel bad since I thought I was just leading people on and hurting them. What I think is the problem tho is ...... 1 reply
Honestly I can relate, I like guys and than they always like me back but once they start liking me I start getting sick of them and throw them away. I date impulsively and end up hurting people. I like being loved but not giving it back, I’ve dated guys and one of them I dated for half a year yet I still got bored of. I recommend just try not to ...... 1 reply
honestly, I think you are normal because we are on the same boat but I never took a liking to someone ever since, there are some guys who confessed to me and it is always one sided because of my lack of interest when it comes to romance. unlike you, I don't feel any remorse but it doesn't make you a bad person so does the confessor. Don't force you...... 2 reply
