Yuri or Yaoi?

I have an honest Question to people who both read Yaoi and Yuri (I'm talking about Both not One) which one do you think is better? And why do you think so?

Just got curios Cause I was legit having an argument with my friend about it, we just ended the conversation tho that both yuri an yaoi has thier own good and bad side... but it was still stuck on my mind. For you personally which do you think is better? ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

Ps: Hope you all have a nice day! And keep safe in this pandemic of ours!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~