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Have you ever been in love?
I've never been in love with someone, i only get interested but i don't feel anything that resembles falling in love. It's weird because i had a boyfriend, and i thought it was going so well but i realized, i never felt like i would cry if he left. My heart would flutter if he'd be with me or say something sweet but it's like i don't feel hurt if we break up (though we're done already AHAHHA) i had crushes but i never cared, it feels weird cuz the mentality that i loved is there but the feeling is not. It's like you just love, but you don't fall in love.
I have been in love many times. Some were more intense than others. In retrospect, however, most were simply infatuation. Everything was great while things were good, but I never felt the desire to put effort in if things were going poorly. That is, until I met my husband. We have been married almost 25 years. In March we will have our 25th anniver...... reply
Take your time. When it's real you'll know it. I was also the kind of person who gets a massive crush, then we start dating and I dump the guy 2 months later because the feelings fade. But now I am engaged and cannot imagine my life without this man. I love him to bits and - it keeps growing. Instead of losing that initial crush, I still fangirl ov...... reply
Yes and they were very self centered.
But also, my attention span for interests can be short. So I always worry that my feelings will stop one day and I'll get bored of the person and I dont want to make the person feel like they've wasted their time with me and I don't want to hurt them. So I just don't enter relationships but I also can't do no s...... reply
I mean I loved someone but never had the chance to confess. We both knew we liked each other but never said it out loud. People assumed we dated or we still like each other. I haven't spoke to him in 2 years. I still kind of like him which is the sad part cos he has changed. It is obvious but you gotta move on and read yaoi cos that helps. 1 reply
I think I've never actually been in love.When I was younger I was so insecure about my appearance that I thought that nobody would never be attracted to me.Thats why when one boy said he did ,I convinced myself that I loved him.And when he broke up with me ,saying that he used me to make another girl jealous I told myself that I would never fall "...... 1 reply
We share same feeling but I don't go that far. I like him but I don't think I would care about his feeling. Like you said, if he broke my heart, I would totally act, "Do I look I care about that? Move on. If you wanna go, I'm gladly set you free. If you wanna stay, then I'll stay by your side until you decide to leave me." 1 reply
ehh don’t really think i have... any crushes i’ve had just stayed as crushes and never developed into anything else ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ plus i’m one to really get attached to my friends rather than a lover but that might just be because the right person hasn’t come along yet - i love my close friends a lot but can’t find myself loving anot...... reply
I've been in love before, so I can't relate to your situation. Though it was only once. And I cried myself to sleep for an entire week when they broke up with me.
Loving someone and being in love with someone are 2 different things. I can't really describe what it felt like to be in love with someone, other than the cliche stuff like always wanting...... reply
Nope never ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭, I wonder how it is to be in complete love? that is why I read yaoi, from really good titles sometimes I can get a special feeling like my chest hurts but at the same time it feels nice maybe that is something that you would feel when you are in love?, I did had a lot of platonic loves but that doesnt have a comparison 3 reply