If you like to harm yourself, it isn't any form of S&M, but earlier suicidal thoughts. If you do not have any kind of thoughts like that and just feel 'pleasure' from it, I would suggest finding a partner that is experienced in S&M or BDSM. There are things that can go wrong. reply
It’s not really sexual so it’s neither S or M.
It’s a maladaptive or dysfunctional method to self manage extreme emotions like anxiety or negative thoughts (suicide etc).
You were probably making a joke though lol. Here we all get serious 1 reply
ur neither, S&M is when u like to inflict/receive pain for sexual reasons and SH is when u just have the intention of harming yourself,NOT others. don’t mix SH and kinky shit together,these r clearly 2 separate topics. 1 reply
