I only kink shame if the kink is an actual crime.
For example :
R'pe kink if one of the party is not consenting is a crime. I will shame.
I will not shame r'pe kink if both party are consenting. It would be roleplay, not a crime.
... Also, I might shame some kinks in my head, but won't say it aloud. '^'
It's not kink shaming if I don't say it's ...... reply
