I’m a bit of both....when I’m pleasuring myself I want a man to be a bit rough with me like, cuff me, choke me a little....pull me hair a bit...and so on...BUT when I see a cute guy somewhere IRL, I wanna tease n bully him a little bit...idk...I just do....I wanna see a good reaction hehehehhe....sometimes when I’m with a friend of mines, and...... reply