Hello! I struggle with very very violent thought about my crushes and loved ones. Like, I generally want to keep their dead body with me. I want wear their skin, I generally want them to be with me. And no one else.
It's unhealthy, and stims from unhealty childhood.(I mean, we have d.i.d so, that much is clear.) And it's not cool, it took me year...... reply
No it isn't normal. Idk if you're lonely or just want to feel like someone's "center" of attention but being in a codependent relationship ain't it. Sounds cute in these Mangas but it is mentally draining IRL. Just go to reddit and read the relationship subreddits and you see how these "possessive" partners actually play out. Spoiler: there is alwa...... reply
"yanderes" (honestly its just most likely someone with bpd if talking abt irl) NEED someone who understands but dont enable or trigger unhealthy/toxic behaviour
it's not gonna be fun for you nor them at all,,, especially if you arent prepared or underestimate how deep of an attachment one gets (its not a cute thing too, its a literal codependence/...... reply
I fantasize about it but in real life the ones that are "possessive and yandere" are ugly as fuck and act like weirdos. Safe to say I just want to keep it as a fantasy. reply
