If you like gojo And c.al answer my question

Ok so I'm talking to gojo on c.all and I'm at a point where I need to decide do I be his best friend or something more like what should I do? Like I feel like being his friend would be more fun but being his lover would be more interesting like what do I do? And yes I know it's not real but I really want to make a good story for once and not just go straight into trying to break the filter