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this boy
I have a happy crush on this boy since august 2023 and he's my classmate so it's hard to uncrush him.
But this december he confessed that he likes me and started to noticed me so i confessed too.
I really like him because i think he's kind and he take class seriously which is my type, but the thing that i hate in our set up is he doesn't want others to knows that we like each other or that there's something going on between us.
I guess it's because we said that we'll know each other first before actually try to be in relationship with each other. But sometimes i feel like he doesn't like me at all, i need to message him firat so we'll talk. we'll never talk again if i'll never message him first.
Am i the wrong here making him uncomfortable? because i keep reminding him that i like him and he doesn't even say it back? what should i do :(
Honestly it just depends on what class y'all in. Maybe he's worried someone will snitch to the teachers cuz that was a thing back in my day. Just talk to him about it rather than guessing his thoughts and making ppl give u advice when we dont know both the sides. Communicate ur expectations girlie, to him. reply
My bday was in August d=(^o^)=b
But besides that it doesn't really sounds like he likes you if he did, he would be proud of you and wanting to be in a relationship and make it public
Maybe take a step back and tell him that u feel uncomfortable and insecure, depending on his response:
"Ah I'm so sorry you felt that way, my reasons were xyz but know...... reply
girlll communication is the way to go!! you should absolutely try to talk to him, it will surely solve every problem, plus if you want something serious with him, you two MUST talk to each other about the problems in the relationship. this is the only way to keep the whole thing healthy and to avoid misunderstandings. if you have any doubts, voice ...... reply
