this boy

I have a happy crush on this boy since august 2023 and he's my classmate so it's hard to uncrush him.

But this december he confessed that he likes me and started to noticed me so i confessed too.

I really like him because i think he's kind and he take class seriously which is my type, but the thing that i hate in our set up is he doesn't want others to knows that we like each other or that there's something going on between us.

I guess it's because we said that we'll know each other first before actually try to be in relationship with each other. But sometimes i feel like he doesn't like me at all, i need to message him firat so we'll talk. we'll never talk again if i'll never message him first.

Am i the wrong here making him uncomfortable? because i keep reminding him that i like him and he doesn't even say it back? what should i do :(