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Is anybody else stressed or scared about their future?
Like I'm so fucking stressed about my future like is it just me or what like I want to be successful and happy in the future So bad but it almost feels impossible like. I'm 13 almost 14 in like 28 days or something ( and yes I know I shouldn't tell people this but it will make more sense if I do) and In my culture you. Have to get married and have kids like if your not married at 21 it's considered weird so people usually get married at 18 or younger and have kids but I don't want to so I know I'm going to get disowned but I want to at least wait until I'm 18 to leave but that's only in 4 years and I don't even go to school hell I'm not even home schooled because once again it's considered weird and not useful to go to school because you're just going to get married and have kids at 18 and the girls just stay at home and cook and clean and take care of the kids and do fortune readings and the guys just sell cars and go out drinking but anyways the point is I have no school so I can't go to college so how tf am I going to get jobs and make money I mean sure I can just do fortune telling just like my aunt who is also disowned but I don't want to like I actually really want to.do something with my life but I don't know where to even start
Just want to let you know that according to the United nations any form of child or forced marriage is HUMAN TRAFFICKING and plans to force you is conspiracy. You CAN get help and report this, especially considering this would be a HUGE child abuse case since you have been denied access to education. You said you live in America THIS IS ILLEGAL AND...... 4 reply
Man you are so baby, so younggg and having to stress about marriage and kids… but… isn’t education required legally in America?? (Saw your response in another comment saying you live in America)
I mean you could always try to get your GED when you’re older… and either go to community college or the workforce. There’s a lot of possibili...... reply
Oh girl, I'm so sorry that you have to stress about that. I don't understand exactly how you feel, but some form of it. That's actually really insane that girls get married at 18, I mean I live in America and like it's obviously different over here then where you live. I mean I don't much about other countries, but if you want to get a job, best be...... 1 reply
I believe that you're currently being abused. The comments before me have gone into deeper detail on what could be possible so all I can is wish you the best of luck. I hope your future is brighter than your present. reply
Please file a police report, go to the police bc this is child abuse. I can't believe there are people denying girl's education, just because of their believes. This is so awful and cruel, everyone deserves opportunities. This is also illegal. Wish you all the best and good luck. reply
You poor soul : ((( The other comments already said everything that I was gonna say, but I just want to wish you all the best and I hope that life gets much brighter. Stay safe!!! reply
I wouldn’t say stressed but most definitely scared. I love sleep too much to be stressing over who or what i’ll be in 35 years. Focusing on where I am right now and improving myself is much more important to me. I hope you realize that focusing on yourself, the present, your education, and prioritizing your wellbeing can lead to a secure and fu...... 1 reply
My only advice for you is to finish school (fucken wait I forgot about the " you can't finish school " but if u do still go to skool, finish it even if it's ur last year of going to skool! ), but if you really wanna think ahead as to what you wanna do in the future you gotta plan it out. Try searching in the internet about the interest (like a goal...... reply
idk where you live but please do not stress so much you are only 14. if you cannot get an education in school there are a lot of courses online you can take, (hell there are even some lessons on youtube). try to learn a skill that you know can make you money, like sewing or crafts or just anything that can be useful enough to make a career out of. ...... reply
